9月18日晚六点半，2019级预防一班的同学有幸邀请到我院王海涛老师为同学们做了一个特别的培训---如何提高人际交往能力。
王海涛老师是医学部十佳教师，负责管理的班级曾获得全国高校践行社会主义核心价值观“示范团支部”、山东省先进班集体、青岛大学十佳先进班集体等荣誉称号。，整场培训没有枯燥的说教，而是用互动游戏和故事循序渐进地展开。虽然一班的同学已认识一年有余，但是许多同学没有机会接触和了解他人，彼此之间还是非常陌生，王老师让同学们分组介绍自己，给了大家一个很好的契机去了解彼此的小爱好与闪光点，
在提到想要学习什么时，许多同学表示想要提高沟通能力，王老师也给出了小窍门。首先要做一个好听众，做到"停看听"三个字，停下手中的事，注视对方，积极的聆听。快速打开话题可以用"图像法"，从学业、旅行等多个方面挖掘对方的兴趣点。最重要的提升人际关系的准则，是经常给予赞赏和感谢，真诚的关心他人，衷心让他人觉得自己很重要，经常微笑……这些不是套路，而是一种温暖与体谅，是理解与共情。有一首诗中曾说，“没有谁是一座孤岛，在大海里独踞。”人们之间总有社会、情感纽带紧紧相连，良好的人际交往能力可以为冰冷或乏味的世界增添温度和色彩。王老师讲到他的学生与寡言的父亲长谈后发现了父亲的夙愿，填补了她父亲最大的遗憾。我们与父母、同学之间或许也常常缺少交流，王老师最后也为大家布置了一个沟通的小任务。
培训结束，同学们都感到受益匪浅。有同学感慨到原来处理人际关系不是这么可怕，舒适圈外藏着另一种人生。也有同学发现学会沟通后自己的自信心增加了，不像从前那么腼腆社恐了。这节课更大的价值还在于同学们能够真正将知识付诸于行动，许多同学不约而同的和家人、故友打电话、发消息，舍友之间也多了笑容和道谢。感谢王海涛老师为大家带来的积极的改变!
Thankful for Meeting
At 6:30 PM on Friday, Wang Haitao, a teacher from the academy of Public Health, held a special class meeting for our class -- how to improve interpersonal skills.
Mr. Wang Haitao is one of the top ten teachers in the Medical Department. The class he is in charge of has gotten a lot of credits. After listening to this class meeting, students all felt the charm of an excellent class meeting. Instead of boring lectures, the whole class meeting was developed step by step with interactive games and stories. Although the students in Class One have known each other for more than a year, many of them have no chance to contact and understand others, so they are still very strange to each other. Mr. Wang asked the students to introduce themselves in groups, which gave us a good opportunity to know each other's little hobbies and shining points.
When it comes to what we want to learn, many students say they want to improve their communication skills, and Mr. Wang also gives tips. First of all, be a good listener. Stop what you are doing, look at the other person, and actively listen. Quickly open the topic can use the "image method", from study, travel and other aspects of the other person's interest. The most important thing is to improve the rules of interpersonal relationship. Give appreciation and thanks, sincerely care for others, sincerely make others feel important, always smile... These are not routines, but a kind of warmth and understanding. There is a poem that says, "No man is an island, standing alone in the sea." There are always social and emotional ties between people. Good interpersonal skills can add warmth and color to the world. Mr.Wang said that her student filled her father's greatest regret after a long talk with his taciturn father and. We may also often lack communication with our parents and classmates. The teacher also assigned a small task of communication at last.
The students benefited a lot from this class. Some students sigh think that the original handling of human relations is not so terrible. Some students also found that their self-confidence increased after learning to communicate, and they were not as shy as before. The greater value of this class lies in the fact that students can put their knowledge into action. Many students make phone calls and send messages with their family members and old friends. The roommates also smile and say thanks. Thank Mr.wang for his positive influence on us!
